Category: Dig This

  • House Resolution 489: A reminder about our American ideals.

    House Resolution 489: A reminder about our American ideals.

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    House Resolution 489 – a condemnation of Donald Trump’s disgusting statement embracing the notion that new Americans aren’t real Americans, and should “go back” to their old countries if they dare have concerns about our SHARED American government and society – will be considered a very important document one day and will go down in history, or should.

    If you haven’t read it, you should. It is such a stirring statement of the gorgeous ideals of our nation. Proud to be an American.

    https://www.congress.gov/bill/116th-congress/house-resolution/489/text

  • Molly Ringwald Revisits Her Characters From the John Hughes Movies in the Age of Me Too.

    Molly Ringwald Revisits Her Characters From the John Hughes Movies in the Age of Me Too.

    This is a timely and insightful essay looking back at the values portrayed in the John Hughes movies of the 80’s, and comparing them to changing values in the age of Me Too. And the fact that it was written by Molly Ringwald, the actress whose character in The Breakfast was the victim of some pretty bad bullying and sexual harassment by the boy she ends up with at the end, makes it all the more interesting.  This woman can write!  Who knew?

     

    The New Yorker

  • How Can Some Individuals Bring Themselves To Mow Strangers Down With Assault Rifles Like They’re Nothing

    How Can Some Individuals Bring Themselves To Mow Strangers Down With Assault Rifles Like They’re Nothing

    The massacre in Las Vegas may well be the event that finally shakes Congress into action to curb gun violence, even if in just some small way. Perhaps the prevalence of defective people who are capable of using guns in this way is finally sinking into our collective consciousness and will persuade paranoid Americans that having access to guns to make them safer from a suddenly metastasizing government or American hunters and gun enthusiasts that holding an assault rifle to feel a surge of power, are simply not important enough to make all of us sitting ducks. I suddenly needed to understand how it is that someone could mow down strangers with assault rifles.  How could a human simply cease to consider other humans as… humans? How can a person turn strangers into ciphers with no value, no history, no soul, so that they are expendable?  I searched the internet in my quest for an answer, and came across this very interesting article by Dr. Allen J. Francis, published in Psychology Today in 2014.  It’s worth a read, in this age when mass murders seem to have become a ghastly, permanent blight. Despite understanding the phenomenon through the words of Dr. Frances, I can’t help but wonder if at bottom it simply indicates our failure as a species to have evolved far enough from the brutes we once were, or, even more sadly, signals our decay.

     

     

  • We Are All Americans

    We Are All Americans

    Can we all just finally get it? As this article from Upworthy shows, African Americans have been an inextricable and important part of the entire post-Columbus American experience almost from its very inception. Indeed, if generational presence here is the measure, they are more “American” than many others who are descended from much later (willing) immigrants.  We are all Americans, just different ribbons weaving through an amazing tapestry.  Let’s start acting like it.

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    http://www.upworthy.com/17-stunning-photos-of-black-victorians-show-how-history-really-looked?c=upw1&u=a3eba34d189c7c8aefe6b5c647d5870f3b9db577

     

  • Police Tactics in Black Communities Reflect Systemic Racism, Pure and Simple

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    Jon Comulada

    How is it that people still don’t get this? If you are a white American living in a fairly homogeneously white community it is shamefully easy for you to remain clueless that there are two very different Americas:  one for white Americans and one for black Americans.  This has been true from the time black people were first forcibly brought to this country in chains, and it sadly remains largely true still. Our failure to come to terms with this truth and with racism generally, is one of our greatest failings as a nation.

    Please check out this article in Upworthy by Jon Comulada about a statement made by Malcolm X in 1964 regarding the attitude of police in black communities, notable Harlem. At the time of this interview, Harlem was, and remains, a community of black American families across a wide spectrum of socio-economic class.  It is sadly still relevant to black communities, which are American communities, across the country.

    http://www.upworthy.com/an-interview-malcolm-x-gave-in-1964-is-shockingly-relevant-in-2016

  • What the World Needs

    The four million plus views this video has had is proof that a playful, open heart and the ability to experience joy are just as vital for the betterment of humankind, and require just as much genius, albeit of a different kind, as the talents of intellects, philosophers, mathematicians, artists and scientists.

  • Calming Your Brain During Conflict

    Calming Your Brain During Conflict

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    The Harvard Business Review featured this article by Diane Musho Hamilton, about how to practice remaining calm during an emotional conflict, perhaps to help its readers regain reason and control in heated business arguments. But of course arguments that escalate to that place where we become seething cauldrons occur in personal relations all the time too, if not more so. Hamilton offers a method for keeping our higher intelligence available to restore order when our more primitive emotion centers hijack our communications.

    “Conflict wreaks havoc on our brains. We are groomed by evolution to protect ourselves whenever we sense a threat. In our modern context, we don’t fight like a badger with a coyote, or run away like a rabbit from a fox. But our basic impulse to protect ourselves is automatic and unconscious…” 

  • The Myth of Quality Time

    The Myth of Quality Time

    In his New York Times column, Frank Bruni tells us why scheduling snippets of time together for quality bonding with loved ones doesn’t actually lead to the quality we seek, or need.

    EVERY summer for many years now, my family has kept to our ritual. All 20 of us — my siblings, my dad, our better halves, my nieces and nephews — find a beach house big enough to fit the whole unruly clan. We journey to it from our different states and time zones. We tensely divvy up the bedrooms, trying to remember who fared poorly or well on the previous trip. And we fling ourselves at one another for seven days and seven nights.

    That’s right: a solid week. It’s that part of the ritual that mystifies many of my friends, who endorse family closeness but think that there can be entirely too much of it. Wouldn’t a long weekend suffice? And wouldn’t it ward off a few spats and simplify the planning?

    The answer to the second question is yes, but to the first, an emphatic no…

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  • I’m Too Old For This

    I’m Too Old For This

    Excellent op-ed about aging at the New York Times!

    I’m Too Old For This, by Dominique Browning.

    There is a lot that is annoying, and even terrible, about aging. The creakiness of the body; the drifting of the memory; the reprising of personal history ad nauseam, with only yourself to listen.

    But there is also something profoundly liberating about aging: an attitude, one that comes hard won. Only when you hit 60 can you begin to say, with great aplomb: “I’m too old for this…”